Counting the days, you may lose hope that marriage is no longer on the card. Having many close friends in life may not help either as loneliness creeps in when they drift apart after being hitched. The strong belief that only true love and companionship with a life long partner matters is deeply ingrained in all adults’ minds.
Life completes only with marriage?
Do you need to be married and raise a family to make your life complete to be happy and contented? Most people are sure that the abundant joy that comes along as a package is too good to miss. It is not fair to expect the other half to offer happiness if you simply hand over your fate. On the contrary, badly managed marriage does not guarantee happiness and may end up in divorce instead.
Marriage is a wonderful institution if you find the right mate and both are ready to compromise most of the time. Hence, it should be a serious consideration and not jump into it prematurely just because you are getting older and time is running out.
Finding the right partner does not mean that you should shut off from the world completely. Everyone can still find happiness and fulfillment in other activities and relationships as well. A good way to find meaning and satisfaction is to become involved in helping others through charity organizations, volunteer work, community activities, working for political causes, and helping the needy. This is where you can meet people and learn about how they cope with their lives.
Being single…
Many younger people are staying single longer so as to focus on building their careers first to achieve happiness and success before seeking serious relationships. Being single allows you to examine your inner self and identify the person you really want to be in life. Life is never empty if you know how to add value to yourself and others. Your life, and how you live it, is your choice.
RICK WARREN - the Purpose Driven Life
"DONT DATE BECAUSE YOU ARE DESPERATE AND DONT MARRY BECAUSE YOU ARE MISERABLE."
JOKEWhy do married men gain weight while single men don’t?
- A single man goes to the refrigerator, sees nothing that he wants, and goes to bed.
- A married man goes to bed, sees nothing he wants, and goes to the refrigerator.
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